What do I do if someone wants to be my friend and I don’t know who the person is?
If someone approaches you and expresses interest in being your friend, and you are unsure of who they are, it is important to approach the situation with caution. Here are some steps you can take:
1. Ask for more information: Politely ask the person for more information about themselves, such as their name, where they know you from, or how they got your contact information. This can help you gather more details about the person and decide if you want to pursue a friendship.
2. Trust your instincts: If you feel uncomfortable or uneasy about the person’s intentions, trust your gut instincts and prioritize your safety. It is okay to set boundaries and distance yourself from someone if you do not feel comfortable.
3. Get to know them gradually: If you decide to give the person a chance, try to get to know them gradually and in public settings. Meet in a group, engage in activities together, and observe their behavior before deciding to open up to them further.
4. Maintain communication boundaries: Be cautious about sharing personal information or details with someone you do not know well. Keep communication within safe and appropriate boundaries until you feel more comfortable and trust has been established.
5. Seek support: If you are unsure how to handle the situation, seek advice from trusted friends, family members, or a counselor. They can offer guidance and perspective on how to navigate the new friendship.