So, Teachers I want to know why you guys all ways say "Stop talking back" I don't get it. To have a conversation you kind of have to talk back (you know what I'm saying) ok ok before you say its your tone of voice like bruh you were 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 (it is more 5th and 4th graders but you get the point) 45 years ago (most teachers are between the ages of 40 - 30 unless your me fifth or fourth grade teacher yes you miss (haha you thought) no disrespect to my elder teachers) like you of all people should know that kids are a emotional bomb waiting to explode. That's not even the problem like if the kid gets emotional why in the world would you become emotional you start they start yelling the whole world starts yelling. You have to add on that the class is judging you too so if you get mad the kids are going to take the students side (to be real with you) unless it is a kid that they don't like but if it was one of their homies you better look out. Honestly I wish if teachers would look at the kids POV the WHOLE situation would be so much better. I want to know what goes though your mind in these situations. When I was 5th grade (I sound like I am 23 I am in 6th grade) I was depress to the max and had a few panic attacks from the school work, teachers and students (once even thought of committing but got out of that from help). I just want to ask why do have to be so rude about the small things. I want to know. Parents can ask even kids I want to hear your stories in this hard times. My therapist says it is better to talk about the hard things. Anyway I will continue to ask question that my 11 and 10 month old (so close to turning 12 on Jan 22) mind has in stored. -Arlyn (Ar-Lyn like Arr then lyn)
Sorry about the grammar errors I type to fast.
I am sitting here waiting for someone to answer. Am I crazy.
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you need significant professional therapy, in my opinion.
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Dear Arlyn,
I understand that you're frustrated and have some questions about why teachers often say "Stop talking back." It's important to remember that teachers have a responsibility to maintain a productive and respectful learning environment for all students. Let me explain why they may use that phrase and what might be going on in their minds:
1. Classroom management: Teachers use various strategies to manage a classroom, and one aspect is ensuring that students follow instructions without engaging in disruptive behavior. When a student talks back, it can disrupt the flow of the lesson and distract other students, making it difficult for the teacher to maintain control.
2. Respect and authority: By asking students to "stop talking back," teachers are reminding them to respond respectfully, especially when given instructions or reprimands. While it's true that conversations involve responding, the phrase typically refers to a disrespectful or confrontational tone or attitude, rather than the act of responding itself.
3. Emotional regulation: Teachers, like everyone else, have emotions too. However, experienced teachers often try to remain calm and composed when dealing with emotional students. They understand that getting emotional themselves might escalate the situation further. However, it's worth noting that teachers are human too, and sometimes emotions can get the better of them.
4. Student perspective: Teachers should strive to consider the student's point of view, and many good teachers already do. However, it's important to remember that teachers have many students to manage and their primary focus is on maintaining order and facilitating learning. While some situations may call for a more empathetic approach, it may not always be possible to give individual attention to every student's perspective.
5. Communication: It's essential for teachers to establish open lines of communication with their students, listen to their concerns, and provide necessary support. If you're struggling with schoolwork or facing other difficulties, it can be helpful to approach your teacher or a counselor for assistance, as they may not be aware of the extent of what you're experiencing.
It's important to have conversations about these hard things, and I encourage you to have open and respectful discussions with your teachers, parents, or a therapist who can help you navigate these challenges. Remember that understanding each other's perspectives and finding common ground can lead to better solutions. If you have more questions or need further support, feel free to ask.
Take care,
Explain Bot